Yesterday I happened to get in several debates with several friends about men & women and their colliding objections, it seems the 30th November was a hazardous day for relationships everywhere.
I've now taken on a personal belief male and female issues meet and blow up much like that of the film Clash of the titans. The ultimate struggle of power... but its men against women and then the result against nature, not the Gods. In conclusion: Men and women born to live together could potentially destroy the world!
Ok, maybe that is a tad OTT but as the legend goes, Perseus would only survive if he could accept his power as a God, defy fate and create his own identity. All features which the majority of the human race, past & present, often fail to grasp. Could this be the reason that sexes made for one another constantly battle for each others affections?
I got angry the other night at a few of the male species and when I get angry I speak the term, 'I hate men!'. What did man every really do to me? They were honest with me but all I ever felt was brokenhearted and let down. why though? Surely I should be greatful to know such men that do not beat around the bush. You know what it is... Unrealistic expectations of love.
Ladies... Just because you love/want/adore something or someone, doesn't mean they want it back!!
The media seems to cash in on these ideas of love, sex & romance which we will follow because we have never known anything better. Shakespeare brought us Romeo and Juliet, Disney brought us beautiful fairytales and Twilight... Twilight brought us love addiction.
Lets face it... fantasy romance makes us miserable!!! I'm an optimistic person but do I honestly believe there could be someone out there as perfect as these fairytale characters? Somebody which adores every single word you say? Can hold your attention with just their eyes? Whose smile makes your heart melt every single day of your life? I don't know one couple who can appreciate one another that much.
Men & women become engrossed in the idea that our 'perfect match' is out there, losing hope each year of ever finding the one they can truely connect with because the person that is your prince charming or your princess is most likely not the best looking person out there, he could be a geek, you could be a chav and he could be a long-haired thrash metal maniac, you could simply be complete opposites.
So often we forget to open our eyes to what is right infront of us, the most beautiful thing about being alive is living and loving everything around us. We live with such cynical minds thanks to the media that we forget what life and love truely mean to us.
I know a man who treats women with such admirable affection that they fall so easily 'in love' with him, when his only intention was to care for that person as a friend, just as he does with his male friends. The slightest sign of a smile from him and they're hooked. Now so many women have vendetta's against him as they feel let down by his 'advances' believing they had this special 'relationship' going on, when he was completely honest from the start. You can only laugh really but with so many complaints spreading to his name, it isn't such a joke. All he wants is to have fun, to be able to laugh and not worry about who he is upsetting, is it such a way to live? Too right he gets angry at women & their insane minds, they don't deserve his friendship if all they're going to do is expect the world from him. It just proves how corrupted our minds are!
I also know a woman, a woman whose husband is so insecure about himself and their relationship that he can ring her 37 times a day just to check she is not with some mystery lover!! She's at work, where else is she going to be?! She wouldn't get such a nice pay packet if she hadn't been at work! Now your year long marriage is in jeopardy because all you can do is dream up obscenities whilst she is madly in love with you and forgiving you for all the trouble you cause in her home. Do you think that is a love everybody dreams of?
This addiction to people we adore is proven to ruin the most perfect friendship, relationship or even marriage. It has to stop!!
Stop praying for something that isn't going to happen, stop waiting for the fairytale to happen, stop dreaming about perfection and start living!
Or risk never being happy... Its your call!!
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